By Kayraa Kinra
About 7 in 10 of all victims of abuses or violence are women.
About two in five of all victims of domestic violence are men, contradicting the widespread impression that it is almost always women who are left battered and bruised.
The media , The government must be focusing on the women molestation cases the most because the number(figures) ,the ratio is high. Because every 15 minutes a girl is raped. Because one of every four household a women/ a girl is physically mentally abused whether its rape , domestic violence or those taunts she has to hear if she can't give birth to a boy child.
But still does the higher ratio of these abuses means we will leave the LOW figures or MEN behind.
HERE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THE MAJOR ISSUES HUMANS FACE in GENERAL REGARDLESS OF THEIR GENDER SO EVEN INVOLVING THE TERMS FEMINISM | Pseudo-feminism| Misogyny| Misandry etc... will be meaningless and cause conflicts.
Any Individual ill-treated in any way is not only a victim but also guilty who let that happen to him/her being known to the fact if they rise up and stand against this exploitation unanimously , not even the government or the corrupt politicians will be able to help those criminals.
Being a victim is not our fault but when we are hiding these abuses then WE ARE AT FAULT. IF WE HIDE 2-3 Abuses AND LET IT GO THEN OUR FUTURE GENERATION WILL HAVE TO HIDE ALL THOSE 1000s of abuses because THAT'S WHAT WE ARE TEACHING THEM. HIDE IT LET IT GO AND MAKE SURE THAT THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN IN FUTURE OH REALLY WHEN YOU HID IT FOR THE FIRST TIME AFTER THAT IF YOU HIDE FOR THE NEXT 20 times IT WILL BE THE SAME BECAUSE HIDING IT FOR THE FIRST TIME YOU ALREADY MADE THE CONDITION WORSE.
We , THE YOUTH CAN ONLY AND ONLY MAKE THEM(media, government, people) REALISE THAT THE FUTURE CAN BE CHANGED AND THE TITLE OF DELHI BEING THE RAPE CAPITAL OF OUR COUNTRY CAN BE CHANGED IF WE MAKE SURE THAT CCTVs in every small village or district or town and big cities are not only installed but also they are working properly. CCTVs to be installed in shops, museums , buses or transport,parks etc. SECONDLY EDUCATING THEM *Indian Education System* will never teach us BASIC INFORMATION that basic information definitely includes Sex Education. Providing education about Rapes , domestic violence and acid attacks and their ill-effects will help them understand the misuse caused by some individuals and the YOUTH can mould the country's future by assuring that the individuals help each other by standing against such exploitation. A COUNSELOR MEETING CAN BE ARRANGED FOR EVERY TEENAGER ONCE IN A MONTH OR TWICE IF REQUIRED so that they can understand and make sure that the teenager's mind is not into exploiting the country or world rather they are willing to make a difference.
itigations that can be filed for major issues to penanlise the criminals
Men involved: GENDER CHANGE (TRANSITIONING OR SEX REASSIGNMENT THERAPY/Surgery)
Initially they are punished under Section 376 provided for seven years of jail term to life imprisonment to whoever commits the offence of rape.
If hanging the rapists to death helped in decreasing the rape cases, still the geadlines wouldn't say *A minor brutally raped* A 8-months old to 90 years lady were INFLUENCING men to rape them, RIGHT INDIANS? Even after providing so many rights and such harsh punishments to the rapists , *US* INDIANS have that backward mentality of we , women made them rape us. Can we just stop letting people judge us with the length of our clothes rather make them realise their DOWN-MARKET THINKING!!!
Did you know that at least one in three women (35 per cent) will experience some form of violence during their lifetime - more than one billion women worldwide?
Women involved: Life imprisonment with non-bailable offence (no bail granted)
Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free and have far fewer refuges to flee to than women.
Violence against women and girls takes many different forms, including domestic violence, sexual assault and harassment, child, early and forced marriage, sex trafficking, so called ‘honor’ crimes and female genital mutilation. It is rooted in the gender inequality that women face throughout their lives from childhood through to old age. BUT THE FIGURE CANNOT SUPPRESS THOSE INNOCENT MEN TO COME OUT OF DEPRESSION AND STAND UP AGAINST EVIL-MINDED WOMEN.
In addition, "6% of women and 4% of men reported having experienced domestic abuse in the past year, equivalent to an estimated one billion people worldwide.
Women might not get equal treatment because of majority of men or because their backward mentality.
WOMEN SHOULD BE ABLE TO FILE A CASE AGAINST THEM. GOVERNMENT SHOULD ENSURE THE SAFETY AND A CHECK ON CCTV RECORDING SHOULD BE ENSURED. FURTHER THOSE EMPLOYEES WITH THE BOSS CAN BE PENALISED FOR 10-15 years.
AND NOW THE MOST IMPORTANT
MEN BEING TREATED UNEQUALLY JUST BECAUSE THE BOSS BEING ATTRACTED TO THE FEMALE EMPLOYEES. MOST OF THE FEMALE IS ALSO A VICTIM HERE BUT FEW OF THEM MIGHT BE ONE OF THOSE 3% of our population who can do anything to be successful. SO THOSE ONE OF 3% Women will agree with her BOSS , INFLUENCE HIM AND DO WHATEVER HOWEVER WHENEVER HE WANTS HER TO DO ANYTHING.
IN MOST OF THESE CASES THE OTHER EMPLOYEES TEND TO LEAVE THE JOB AND LET GO WHAT HAPPENED INITIALLY AND MOST OF THEM BEING JEALOUSOF THAT WOMAN SO THEY TEND TO PUNISHING BOTH OF THEM IN THEIR WAY BY TAKING THE LAW IN THEIR HANDS.
WILL THAT ANYHOW HELP? Did it help so far?
PREACH THE COURT , THE MEDIA, THE GOVERNMENT!!! THE COURT WILL PUNISH THEM. YOU DON'T HAVE TO COMMIT ANY CRIME.
Have you watched Chapaak?!?!? THROUGHOUT THE MOVIE I HAD GOOSEBUMPS , I THOUGHT THE ENDING WAS GOING TO BE BEAUTIFUL BUT YOU NEED TO WATCH IT:(
Here I won't talk about Women or Men!!!!!
ONLY THE ONES WHO FACED OR CAN FACE THOSE ATTACKS(irrespective of their gender caste or creed) , IT JUST GIVES ME GOOSEBUMPS WHENEVER I READ ACID ATTACKS. ONE MINUTE AND YOUR FACE IS JUST AS TERRIBLE AS I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. ITS JUST SO MUCH TERRIFYING THAT YOU WOULD CRY OUT HEARING THE STORY BEHIND THE ATTACK.
I won't file any litigation I WOULD JUST REQUEST THE GOVERNMENT JUST PLEASE MAKE THOSE ATTACKERS(REGARDLESS OF THEIR GENDER) HAVE A BATH IN A ACID SHOWER!!!! THEY WILL KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO TAKE AWAY SOMEONE'S IDENTITY. THIS IS JUST SO DISHEARTENING .
ts neither NIRBHAYA(Jyoti Singh) , PRIYANKA REDDY, Gunjan nor Laxmi Agarwal Jay and Fenix and many more common people who faced these kinds of ILL-TREATMENT. What we can do is STAND TOGETHER OR FACE THIS ONE AFTER THE OTHER.
Choice is yours:)